Last night I had an appointment with my Osteopath. He told me I needed to learn to walk
correctly if I wanted my body to function at its best. He showed me how to balance my body, how to hold my head, etc. He said I needed to allow the energy to flow through my body and feel the elongation this produces. He explained that every part of my body has a specific harmonious function in the walking process and if I let it, it will function well. He emphasized I would feel better all over. As I was walking, practicing, in the hallway of the clinic under his supervision I heard
him say something completely unexpected: “Enjoy your walking!”.
What a novel idea, to enjoy my walking! It never occurred to me. I always thought of walking as something we do to get from one place to another not something to enjoy in and of itself! Yes, I do enjoy walking through a park or on the shore of the lake, but that is mainly because of the scenery and is not about the walking itself.
Then it downed on me: this is just another paradigm we are programmed to believe. It’s like us accepting the idea that our relationship with our significant other will modify and lessen after a couple of years of living together. How many times do we hear: “Well, the honeymoon is just that, a month, and then real life kicks in.”
I know this does not have to be true! For some of us it takes a second marriage and getting into our 40s and 50s, to understand there can be another truth. Once we decide to live on our own terms, we realize there is so much we can enjoy and mold to our own specifications including our marriage or intimate relationship! Our relationships can be wonderful for our entire lifetime! If you are curious about how this is possible, please feel free to visit my website.
You know your relationship is rocky if it’s holiday season and instead of excitement you find yourself thinking:
- “What’s the point in buying her a gift? She’s never happy – no matter what I do.”
- “We never talk anymore. I wish it would change but he seems so distant all the time.”
- “Maybe if we just went on vacation somewhere things would fix themselves.”
- “How are we going to last another year of this?”
If you are like me, you might want to pull the covers over your head, and eat a tube of ice-cream, hoping it will all go away somehow. You might be feeling frightened or confused. These were some of the feelings I had and I was already in my second marriage… And then we figured it out. We figured out EXACTLY what to do to reignite the passion.
If I told you it was 100% possible to rekindle the relationship and restore your marriage in just one month, wouldn’t you want to know how?
Both my husband and i are in our second marriage and the both of us were in the coaching field for many years. Everything we went through we analyzed and discussed exhaustively for solutions. The best part? It worked! We felt more connected. We got excited to spend time with one another. As we got older and spent more time together, our dreams kept growing instead of fading. What we were experiencing was so far outside the norm that people started to ask us why we were so different.
This is the reason why second marriages (or common law relationships) are so close to my heart. I was in the frightened and confused place. I felt alone and unheard. And i was also deeply determined to fall in love with my husband again. Statistics tell us that 67% of second marriages fail. Who wants to be a failed statistic when there is a simple solution that takes a bit of work? Your marriage is worth it, isn’t it?
If you are serious about making your 2nd Marriage or Common Law Marriage work, then ask me about Power the Passion Discovery Call.